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Back to School ... in the Suburbs

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Published: Sep 3, 2008

Exactly 73 steps separate the front door of my family home in Manayunk from the Philadelphia public school across the street. James Dobson Elementary, built in 1929, consumes the entire block between Hermitage and Wright streets, off Umbria, its concrete schoolyard serving as the unofficial backyard of a neighborhood with few real backyards to speak of. It's where I learned to roller skate and to ride a bike, where I jumped double dutch (not well) and, later, sneaked cigarettes and kissed boys in the long shadows cast by its heavy iron fencing.

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What I never did there was attend a class. In 36 years of life, 22 spent growing up on Dobson's doorstep — close enough that its squawking afternoon dismissal bell would wake a napping baby — I've never gone into the building beyond the auditorium that serves as the local polling place, or the claustrophobic basement gymnasium where my nephews played floor hockey. My parents sent their six kids to one of the local parochial schools — and let's not pretend it was just for the religious instruction.

When my husband, young son and I were moving back to the Philadelphia area from Central Jersey a few years ago, not once did we seriously consider moving into the city itself. Like many couples we know, we moved to the suburbs specifically so we could send our child to public school there. In fact it's probably fair to say we pointedly and unapologetically avoided the city of Philadelphia. You want to know why? Let's start with two words: persistently dangerous.

An annual Pennsylvania Department of Education report issued last week classified 20 Philadelphia public schools as "persistently dangerous," an ominous-yet-efficient bureaucratic descriptor for seats of learning where students are at risk of robbery, assault, rape, weapons crimes, kidnapping and other "dangerous incidents" every time they walk through the door.

Go back to Dobson for a second. It's not on that dangerous-schools list, and never has been (nor has the neighborhood's public secondary school, Roxborough High). And while Dobson doesn't have playground equipment or athletic fields out back the way my son's suburban school does, its students score well above average on the PSSA. A banner used to hang out front advertising a "private school education at a public school price." Yet to the mind of a parent making the choice of where to live based on the city's public school options, Dobson and Roxborough — and thus, the city itself — never even become part of the discussion.

The problem facing this city's leaders, assuming they want to attract people other than twentysomethings and empty-nesters to town, is that for parents deciding where to settle down, Philadelphia rarely even comes into consideration. Philadelphia's public schools are seen as institutions of last resort, for folks who can't afford anything else or whose kids aren't smart or lucky enough to get into Masterman. The issue isn't race, class or economics but perceptions and expectations, and the lack of them. The perception is that Philadelphia's public schools are just bad, and that removes any expectation that the city's schools offer a quality education in a safe environment.

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I'm not sure it's getting better. I'm not blind to all those young families I see pushing strollers around Northern Liberties or along Main Street, or the young marrieds quaffing microbrews at Gastropub of the Week with a Baby Bjorn slung across the chest, "Murderdelphia" the furthest thing from their minds. But I still don't see many families with school-aged kids. By the time kindergarten looms, they've safely decamped to Havertown or Collingswood or Glenside.

It might seem that if families like mine were really committed to the city, it would be a wash to just spend $10,000 a year on private school tuition, instead of South Jersey school taxes. Certainly 12 years of Catholic education helped my spiritual development. We also could have followed the example of several of our Jewish friends and enrolled our boy in one of the city's Quaker schools. Charter school? Home schooling? Even a decent public school, perception be damned? We could "become part of the solution," as they say.

The point is, we shouldn't have to. Many students do make it through Philadelphia's public schools and go on to successful higher educations and productive lives. But I can't shake the feeling that they're succeeding despite their schools, not because of them. And while I love Philadelphia, my commitment to my city doesn't outweigh my commitment to my son.

Amy Z. Quinn blogs at quinnchannel.typepad.com.

Comments

Do you worry about your son not making the kind of friends you did, not learning to live in an increasingly diverse world, not being comfortable with urban life?
by HCW on September 3rd 2008 6:48 PM

Suburbs = Persistently high property taxes. You end up paying for it either way.
by TM on September 4th 2008 3:49 PM

blah blah blah, snore. Your point of view is typical of a frightened suburbanite who has never lived in the city. The view is different from here, honey. You haven't spent much time in Northern Liberties or you would have noticed hordes of school-age kids: at the park, at the community center day camp, at the swimming pool, in each others BACKYARDS. In my large group of friends who are parents of school age children in the city, there are families who choose the neighborhood public schools, the charter schools, the private schools or even homeschooling. The choice is not as predictable as you think: some well-families choose the local public school, some less well off choose private with the help of family and aid. My philosophy is that every family has to make the choices that work for them. There is a lot of tolerance between my friends for each other's choices. We very rarely talk about moving out of the city. The close-knit community, the access to museums, parks, restaurants, the ability to get around without a car, the comparatively low property taxes, the historic homes the relatively diverse neighborhood are all factors. When the rare family does move out, we mostly feel sorry for them, knowing that they will be missing a lot.
by nolibs mom on September 4th 2008 7:25 PM

"Your point of view is typical of a frightened suburbanite who has never lived in the city."

Criticism works better when you read the article first.
by deeney on September 4th 2008 11:09 PM

She said she grew up in the city and lived there for 22 years, so she does have a perspective. What's yours? You probably grew up in some suburb and now think you're cool because you live in Northern Liberties.
by ero on September 5th 2008 8:54 AM

Hahah, pwn3d. Good one ero.
by Eric on September 5th 2008 9:33 AM

There's an argument that Philadelphia schools are so bad because Philadelphians have always used parochial schools. Philadelphia schools have always been bad because most people don't use them. In other words, you could live in the city and send your child to a parochial school or a charter school, just like your parents did.
by Number10Ox on September 8th 2008 3:42 PM

These three responses to Citizen Mom are from my Strawberry Mansion High School Social Science class:

Ross Holmes:
I would have to say I half agree with the mother. I say that although Philadelphia Public Schools are sometimes dangerous, you can find the same problems elsewhere. There is no certain place where bad things and people people are. Things like robbery, assualt, rape, weapons crimes, kidnapping and other "dangerous incidents" occur everywhere. It is not the environment who is doing this, it is the people who live there. So I would reword her main idea, it is not the schools that are dangerous, they have dangerous students.

Latashia Washington:

I think that you are very wrong about Philadelphia Public Schools. For example, all public schools are not dangerous; yes, there might be a few incidents here and there but not all the time. Plus, you really don't know what is going on inside these public schools because you probably never have been in one. You only know what the media tells you. Furthermore, public schools can do very well academically but you never hear the news because the media only talk about the bad things that happen. Clearly, before you judge public schools, you should go visit one to see what it is and how it is.

Monet Weekly:

I am a student at Strawberry Mansion and for you to feel that way, makes no sense. Its not the school that makes its dangerous, it is the students. The staff has nothing to do with it. It is a student's choice to do the work, to be respectful, to pick what crowd they want to fit in with. Private schools are no different. Even public schools make AYP. In addition, just because they some schools are not on the top 20 dangerous schools listed by the PDE, that does not mean they are not dangerous. Most incidents are not recorded, that goes for anywhere. Well, whoever wrote this is a fool and really needs to see the big picture.

Talibah Miles:

Students are at risk everyday they come to school. Parents play a big role in the solution. This only goes to show how much attention the parents are giving their children. To make it better instead of criticizing the public school system, I think you should do something to make it better. Why don't you help out. It is your problem, and you can't back away.

by Mr. Hesse on September 9th 2008 1:05 PM

Mr. Hesse,

Thanks so much to your students for their smart, reasonable responses. I'd love to talk to you -- please drop me a line at citizenmom@citizenmom.net

Thanks!
by Citizen Mom on September 9th 2008 5:56 PM

"...the media only talk about the bad things that happen..." quote un-quote...that says a lot about the public school education...

Ms. Quinn is right on target...the schools are bad...and there is a din of disruption in the schools...I know it...Ms. Quinn knows it...and all the parents who don't send their sons and daughters to the public schools know it...

Vouchers are the way to get these cess-pools cleaned up...

Anyone agree?

by Down in the Basement on September 10th 2008 10:15 PM

I was raised in a diverse area of Philadelphia. I went to a middle school next to low income housing. I was subjected to fights. No child should have this exposure in schoo. I have friend who lives in Northern Liberties he is looking to move to make a better life for his kids. My brother owns a
Brown Stone there he leaves vacant. Why we choose not to live in the city is exactly stated above in the article - Crime. I will pay double property taxes any day to keep my family safe and out of harms way. Philly has gone down the tubes you can see that by the nuber of police killed and the school crime. No child should have to be subjected to the violence of others especially at school. I say the Mayor needs to get off his Ass and hire some more police. No instead he will close pools and other public areas because the city is in a financial mess. God Bless us all and lets hope the Democratic example Philly leads doesn't rub off on the USA as a whole. Reality check PA schools lag behind in state reankings on top of crime and such. My solution pay higher property taxes where schools are better and safer because the schools are less crowed with violent students. By the way I have lived out of state and schooled Children there. You all really need a reality check if you think the best is in Philly.

by dm on November 8th 2008 5:22 PM


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